I really liked this article.  I particularly responded to the paragraph about friends wanting to hold onto your shirt tail, when they have no original ideas or inspirations themselves.  I want to be generous to all of my friends when I am successful in business. I have asked them each step along the way,  do you have anything to offer towards this project?  Would you like to join this venture with me?  The answer is usually well, not right now--hey, but don't forget about me when you're successful or famous. 

This brings me to think about your first paragraph, the power we have over people and just how early we learn about this power.  As a mother of four I  am, a nurturer and as the oldest child in my family for as long as I can remember I have been groomed for this role which has been played out as mother, gardener, friend to animals, environmentalist teacher, presenter and lecturer. 

There is a fine line at times between giving and being drained, being asked for help and being used. These types of distinctions are painful to establish for the natural nurturer and many women are just that; whether in the home or the boardroom.

"Keep up the good work," as my Dad would say.

Kindly,

Stephanie Bird